As I prepare to leave Bolivia at the end of the month, I have been thinking about my experiences here and the things that I like best (and least) about this country.
People here are incredibly patriotic, something which I find really nice. A lot of the local produce here says “proudly Bolivian” on it. People are also very proud of their culture, and they are incredibly culture rich. Each region has its own traditional dish and traditional dress. The music here is also a big thing. Sometimes it seems like they are stuck in a bit of a time warp, the same songs are always played and most music you hear is old. However they have their own rhythms and musical instruments, mostly to do with folklore, and everyone knows the songs. I went to a concert of a Bolivian band and there is one song called “viva mi patria Bolivia” – long live my homeland Bolivia. During the song everyone got out their handkerchiefs and waved them about, there was a group of grannies in front of me waving their handkerchiefs around though they could barely move otherwise, it was so sweet!
People here are also incredibly welcoming and generous, you meet them once and they treat you like family. For my birthday I was invited to the home of a family I know and was given a present, had a special meal made for me and I even got a birthday cake! As I left (with the remains of the cake) they kept telling me I mustn`t forget them and how good it was to meet me. It was so lovely, and I had only met this family once before.
Not everyone is quite so friendly unfortunately, some people just assume you are rich and try to rip you off whatever you do. Alongside the culture of generosity and welcoming people, there is also a side that tries to deceive you. A Bolivian friend once admitted that he knew that at the end of the day, he would deceive us, because it is part of his culture. It can be small things, an extra 50 cents for a drink, which direction something is in or whether your bags will go straight onto the bus. Or sometines it is bigger, I was being charged more rent than I should have been at my old house just `cos the woman I lived with felt like lying to me.
Maybe it is the culture of corruption, that leaks down from those with power. Or perhaps it is that people need to make such small deceptions just to get by. I guess you can`t knock them for trying, despite the manana culture here, people do work hard. As far as I can figure out, pretty much anything can be a job. For example there is the “sharpening man”, this man has a big metal wheel,which is itself on wheels. He carts his wheel around the city in search of those who need things sharpened. You can bring him scissors, knives even an eyeliner and he will push the pedal to make the wheel go round to sharpen it for you. When he`s sharpened all there is to sharpen in one area he goes off to the next.
There is also a man whose job it is to stand in the middle of the road and tell the minibuses how late they are for their rounds. I say it`s a job, he doesn`t actually get paid he lives off tips, though I doubt he gets many as he often gets abused by the bus drivers.
Some people make a living selling just one simple thing, for example they sell pens, and they stand on the street all day shouting “pens, one boliviano” or whatever. I used to think these people were ridiculous until I realised it`s `cos they cannot afford the inital investment to buy more stock and so are stuck with their one item.They can sell all sorts of things, for example there is a shoelace guy who walks around with a bundle of different coloured shoelaces. Or the cableperson, holding reels of cable. It can be very useful, one day for example I was preparing to go on a trip to the salt flats and had everything I needed except face wipes. I was in luck, I passed the face wipe woman and bought a packet.
These people must make a pittance but you do really have to give them credit for trying. Think of all those people on the dole in England, if you told them to go out on the street and sells pens all day I doubt they would do it. That`s the thing, there`s no dole here.
Before I came here, many people asked me why I wanted to come, some didn`t even know where Bolivia was. The truth is Bolivia has a lot to offer a “tourist” or “gringo” in terms of “attractions”. Some of the landscapes here are absolutely stunning. I have been to the salt flats, seen volcanoes and visited the jungle all within one country.
Overall I think I will miss Bolivia for many things: its cholitas and their bowler hats, saltenas on the street (these are little pastrys with meat, veg and gravy inside), the markets, the brightness of La Paz (though not the coldness at night), juice in a bag for 50 centavos, the Bolivian sweets I have an addiction to, and for the people I have met here. Viva mi patria Bolivia…though I still don`t have a handkerchief.